PRIVATE COUPLES RETREATS
LEESBURG, VA
Where to Stay What to Do
Reconnection, Virginia Style: Turn your retreat into a restful escape
Give Yourselves the Gift of Space + Time
A retreat is more than a weekend away — it’s a pause long enough to listen to what your relationship has been trying to say.
Here in Loudoun County, open fields, vineyard hillsides, and mountain air create the quiet your connection has been craving. Between and after therapy sessions, you’ll have time to walk, rest, and rediscover the simple ease of being together, without deadlines, devices, or distractions.
Loudoun County has gorgeous luxury resorts, outstanding restaurants of many flavors, places to hike, horseback ride. There are dozens of wineries, many with breathtaking views, and breweries where you can hang out and relax.
You can rediscover each other here.
This isn’t a vacation from your relationship. It’s a homecoming to it.
Where to Stay
Places That Support Reconnection
Loudoun County, Virginia, offers a range of places that balance beauty, privacy, and ease, settings that let your nervous systems breathe again.
Recommended Retreat Stays
Many couples extend their stay a day or more beyond the retreat itself — a gentle buffer before returning to the demands of daily life.
Here are just some of Loudoun County’s lovely boutique hotels, spas, and B&B’s:
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Refined luxury surrounded by woods and horse trails, with a spa designed for deep rest. https://salamanderresort.com/
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A countryside estate with panoramic views, exquisite dining, and a feeling of timeless calm. https://www.goodstone.com/
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Historic, stone-built, and softly lit — ideal for couples seeking warmth and charm. https://redfox.com/
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Resort comfort with views of the Potomac and proximity to historic downtown Leesburg cafés and shops. My office is very close by. lansdowneresort.com
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Romantic seclusion in wine country, perfect for reflection and privacy. https://virginiabandb.net/
Share the Table, Share the Moment
Restaurants Right for Two
Shared meals often open the door to conversation that therapy begins. Loudoun’s restaurants celebrate slow food, local farms, and the art of lingering — all the right ingredients for intimacy to grow.
A Few Favorites
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Playful and romantic, where chocolate finds its way into nearly every course. https://the-conche.com/
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Upscale dining, blending the farm-to-table cuisine with the charm of our historic Hunt Country setting. https://www.goodstone.com/
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Innovative Indian cuisine. https://celebrationva.com/
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Located in an old mill, serving delicious seasonal dishes. https://www.magnoliasmill.com/
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Yummy comfort food served inside an old grist mill. https://www.tuskies.com/
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Creative tasting menus in a relaxed, candlelit space. https://www.ahsoresto.com/
Consider saving one special dinner for the final evening of your retreat — many couples find that marking their progress together helps anchor the work.
Explore Together: Healing Beyond Words
Some of the most important shifts happen outside the therapy room. Moving together — walking, tasting, exploring — helps your connection find its natural rhythm again.
Gentle Ways to Reconnect:
Sip wine under open skies at Stone Tower, 868 Estate, or Bluemont Vineyard
Wander Historic Leesburg or Middleburg, stopping for coffee, antiques, or local art
Hike the quiet trails at Red Rock Overlook or Ball’s Bluff
Schedule a couples massage or spa afternoon at Salamander or Lansdowne
Drive the Hunt Country loop, where winding roads and horse pastures stretch for miles
Take a guided trail ride or share a picnic beneath old oaks and endless blue
For lots of other ideas, visit https://www.visitloudoun.org/things-to-do/
Where Your Connection Takes Root
A retreat gives you structure and guidance — but it’s often the space in between that allows something new to emerge. A shared silence. A laugh. A meal without tension.
This area offers a landscape that steadies and softens — the perfect complement to the deep work you’ll be doing together.
Let the land, the quiet, and the time help you come home to each other.